I don't understand that male mind, most of the time
Posted by I'm not sure I'm an adult yet at Friday, December 12, 2008I have a simple question...
Why is it that when a man DECIDES to take out a girl on a date and pays, that it is the WOMAN'S fault for his spending money??
It could just be me, because I'm not that kind of girl. But I don't give a shit if you take me out and lavish me with gifts, that is your decision. I have always believed that a date is a way to get to know someone else, as a time to talk. Go to a park for a walk, go browse a book store, grab a quick coffee.Just show me that you want to spend time with me. But DO NOT blaim your financial spending on a woman. Although I know there are some woman out there who do want the money and the gifts and what not. But any man who DECIDES to do so, well he needs to just deal with that.
Just like it is MY decision if I want to take Kenny out for dinner and pay. I will not complain,because it was what I wanted to do. And whether I do or not is also no ones business, but that's besides the point.
Sometime I just don't get people. Don't try to be a 'baller' (sorry for lack of a better term) and then bitch about it. It makes you less attractive. Grow some balls and deal with your decisions.